Sam I Am
Wednesday, February 4th, 2009Earlier today, I was flipping through Nico (a Euro fashion magazine) and found an interview of Sam Roddick of Coco de Mer. For anyone who doesn’t know the name, Coco de Mer is the premier luxury sex boutique in the world. Sam opened the first shop in London a few years ago. Now, on top of a burgeoning presence in the UK, they have a shop in Los Angeles.
Anyways…
The interview was brilliant – it looked past the aura of the Roddick name to the mindset that brought Sam to the “love” biz. It’s evidence of what can happen when brains and confidence come of age. Sam was driven not by profit, but by a more meaningful desire. And given the Roddick legacy, it couldn’t have been without some serious reflection that Sam chose this direction for her career. But Sam saw a chance to have a positive impact on the world, and went for it…with gusto. Through it all, Sam has gotten to know herself very well. And when you meet her, it shows.
Not everyone is cut out for this business, and it’s certainly not yet mainstream. So it’s hard not to admire those who have taken it on from unlikely beginnings.
But it’s all in how you do it. And there’s scarce pickin’s if you’re looking for people/companies that are executing with a good measure of taste. Most of what you see is trashy and vulgar.
Not so with Coco de Mer. What Sam (and her sis Justine) have created is a bit of a sex fashion oasis in the middle of a desert of cheap jelly products and shoddy lingerie.
Being way more enthused about contemporary stying and design (think Scandanavian), I’m not a huge fan of the Victorian qualities of the Coco de Mer collection. However, I am a HUGE fan of the sensibilities of the founders, the intent of the stores, and the effect of making sex products aspirational rather than just titillating. This underscores a different relationship between us humans and one of our most sought-after pastimes.
Thanks Sam, and Justine too.
Dave
