Don't believe everything that the pop-ups say. But I'm sure you alread know that.

And…

The relationship you described is NOT monogamous. And assuming that the activity goes outside of the expectations laid out between the partners, I'd say, forget the labels!!! That's a distraction from the real issue. These two people need to have a conversation about resetting expectations!

Your answer #1 affirms my opinion, but I needed to know the answer. I got it today when my wife and I had an unusually open and honest discussion about this and a few other topics. I will say this though, from some of the pop-ups on the internet it seems there are women that will orgasm, or want to, if the wind blows.

Your answer #2, I was referring to a monogamous relationship. In that context, if a partner, male or female, were to regularly have sex, though NOT with another person, would that be an affair ?

You must have your laptop at the care center. I hope you're feeling better each day
and I look forward to seeing you again soon.

Daryl

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DaveBrown wrote, in response to dpowell23:

@dpowell, I have to ask – what would constitute a straight answer for you? Are you annoyed that no-one is telling you what you want to hear?

I can't speak for Trina on this one, but to your questions, I would say:

1) rarely do women (or men) have orgasms simply by reading, but there are a lucky few whose imagination alone can be that poweful!

2) I think an “affair” is defined by the expectations set out earlier in the relationship. Some may agree on the outset that the relationship is “open”, whereby a physical encounter outside the relationship is NOT an affair to them. Others may agree up front that merely an intimate thought of another person is enough to constitute an “affair.”

The most important thing here is what YOU think. So…what DO you think?

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I can't speak for Trina on this one, but to your questions, I would say:
1) rarely do women (or men) have orgasms simply by reading, but there are a lucky few whose imagination alone can be that poweful!
2) I think an “affair” is defined by the expectations set out earlier in the relationship. Some may agree on the outset that the relationship is “open”, whereby a physical encounter outside the relationship is NOT an affair to them. Others may agree up front that merely an intimate thought of another person is enough to constitute an “affair.”

The most important thing here is what YOU think. So…what DO you think?